What About Being a Young Parent?

They say everything happens for a reason. And whatever the reason is, we wouldn't know until that certain thing happened.


Here's my first comeback blog after a long time. Nakaka-miss nga e, kaya eto super type nanaman ako habang tulog yung baby ko. What about being a young parent? masaya, na mahirap. At first I admit na nahirapan ako mag-adjust. to the point na parang nadepressed ako for so many reasons. Like hindi ako makasama sa gimik ng barkada, hindi makagala, hindi na makalaro ng dance revo and stuffs like that. Alam kong i shouldn't feel like that but I did. Naramdaman ko na lang suddenly na iba na nga talaga ang buhay ko. Malayo sa dating buhay ko. It's not about me alone anymore, it's about my baby and me being his mother now. Unti-unti natanggap ko na. Nasanay na din ako. I never expected na I would have a kid as early as now. But as I said earlier everything happens for a reason, and I think na yung reason e maging responsible at mas mature na ko. I'm a breasfeeding mom, and with that talagang 'di ako pwede lumayo sa anak ko. Isa pa, ayaw nya talaga sa bote. Ewan ko ba, nung pinanganak ko naman sya sa bote sya unang nag feed kasi naiwan pa sya sa nursery ng hospital. Siguro nga I'm meant to breastfeed. guh!. Pero It's ok. I'm enjoying it. Madali nga ako nag loose ng weight e. And! healthy pa si baby.


Sabi nila parang mag-kapatid lang kami ng anak ko. I don't know why pero that's everyone says. Sabi pa ng isang friend ko "wala naman nagbago sa'yo, nagkaroon ka lang ng bitbit na bata that's all". Ewan ko kung mafla-flatter ba 'ko e. Hahaha. Pero siguro nga. I can say na I'm enjoying being a mom to him. Kahit napupuyat, I'm getting used to it. Parang nung wala pa kong baby. Puyat din ako lagi, ang kaibahan lang sa kaka-computer at hindi sa baby. Madami na ko natututunan sa pagiging isang magulang. Natuto 'ko maging mas patient, understanding at higit sa lahat responsible.


Being a young parent doesn't mean that you failed in your life. It just means that you have to do more and be more responsible because you're not alone anymore in your journey to succeed.

I'm Baaaack!!!!!

Oh yeah! I'm back and I'm lovin' it.How you guys doing? I missed blogging since I got pregnant. Pinagbawalan kase ko humarap lagi sa aking p.c. hayys. but anyway I'm back not as soon as I gave birth but it's ok right?. i've been so busy being a first time mom with my 5 month old baby (exactly 5 months this coming october 29). so yeah, what's crackin'?. I guess from now on I'm gonna be more in touch with you guys. More posts, more blogs, more comments, more typing!!. wohoo! it's good to be back :)

A BIG Revelation.

I realized na mali pala magsalita ng tapos. I remember my post entitled "Nanay Na Si Nene". Guess what. Ako na ngayon si Nene. Yep, you read it right. I'm 3 months pregnant with my 1st baby now. Shocking nga. Nabasa ko nga yung post ko at tinamaan ako ng bonggang bongga! Well anyway, wala ako pinagsisihan. Although madaming nagtaka, nagulat at nanghinayang. I'm OK, we're OK. Masaya ako, masaya kami ng Ama ng magiging anak ko. We had no regrets pagdating sa pagkakabuo sa bata. With regards to our parents, ayon both sides were shocked. But they had nothing to do about it na. Besides, my baby is gonna be their first Apo. Big Revelation nga ito. Lalo na sa mga friends ko. Pero full support sila sobra. As in whenever they had a chance to visit me, gora sila! Excited pa nga ata kesa sakin. Same with my family, and my husband-to-be's family. Full support, although my parents was kinda disappointed. Pero now tanggap na nila. Taong-bahay na ako ngayon. Almost 2 months na yata akong out of school. For the sake of my baby narin, kasi uwian ako everyday. 1 hour, minsan 1 1/2 hours ang byahe sa jeep. Too risky for my pregnancy. Pero I'll be going back to school mga 2 years after siguro. And yes! Everything will go back to normal again. Actually, normal parin naman ngayon. Except nga na 'di na ko pumapasok, AT sa mga strange feelings ko during my pregnancy. Mahirap specially that I'm on my 1st trimester. As in mahirap na masaya. Masaya! Dahil last Nov. 7 I had my first check-up and that was also the first time that I heard my baby's heartbeat! That moment talaga I felt the feeling of being a Mom na. I was so happy to the point na halos maiyak ka na habang naririnig mo yung sound ng heartbeat niya. Lahat ng hirap na nararanasan mo, parang OK na lang dahil alam mong it's worth it. Who cares kung ano man ang sabihin ng iba. All I care about is my baby. Two months to go then malalaman na kung he or she ba si baby. Hehe. Now that's more exciting. You know guys, it's hard to tell pala kung ano mangyayari sayo, not until nangyari na. I learned that it's wrong to put an assurance in everything you think and plan about yourself. Mali na magsalita ng tapos. Dahil ang totoo nyan, you'll never know what the future will bring you. You'll never know what's really planned for you. But then again, life must go on . And always remember that Failure will never overtake you if your determination to succeed is strong enough.

Nawala Ako

Bakit nga ba? Sa mga chismosa at chismoso na gusto malaman kung bakit, eto na sagot. Umatake ang pagka-ulyanin ko. Nakalimutan ko ng bonggang bongga ang password ng blogger ko. Siy*t. Na-miss ko tuloy kayo. Ehem! Speaking of miss. Anu na ba mga na-miss ko sa blogger world? Ah. I would like to take this oppurtunity (nanalo sa contest? hahah) to thank my co-bloggers who added me on their bloglist. Tats ako (tulo sipon). Siya nga pala, I've updated my blog list. Paki ping nlang ako kung wala ka don ATTTTTT sa nagbigay sakin ng award/s. I love you all! mwuah mwuah!! Hehehe. So, ano ba balita?. Sakin madami. As in. Super. Over. Haha! Kaso, d ko alam kung papanu uumpisahan. Kaya bukas na lang. Ayun, nagbabalik po! :)